The Most Attractive Thing :)

Everyone wants to “”””look good””””. This could mean being fashionable, or wearing a certain brand and being “hip” looking good is something everyone thinks about and participates in to some degree.

This doesn’t have to be a bad thing, after all I am a huge believer in the “dress for success” method. Have a quiz in some class you’re worried about? Boom, wear a button-up, slacks and a tie. Trying to go out and be productive? Bang, shave, put some moisturizer on those ashy legs. Feelin Yourself, or perceiving yourself as already having the characteristics of someone who has succeeded is an amazing way to give yourself that lil confidence boost.

Now on the other side of the coin we have someone who uses the single indicator of appearance to judge somebodies degree of success or even if they’re worth talking to at all. This is the archetypal mean girl of the school, Cinderellas older sisters, and the likes. Chances are as you’re reading this you have come across these types of people. Chances are also that these people make other bad judgment calls as well and tend to not have really good friends, and when takin out of their place where they do wield the little superficial power they posses, any friends at all. So fashion isn’t necessary but it can be prosperous for all when not used as the basis for resentment in someone else’s story.

What is the 1 thing that is universally attractive (for even psychological reasons), cheaply available, and goes with any outfit?

A Smile 😀

Yes, it’s cheesy, but it’s also true. People love to laugh, and smiling is a product of laughing, this alone means that when you’re smiling people are more likely to engage in conversation with you. It also makes you appear less stressed than you probably are and makes it seem that you’re okay with what life has already thrown at you this morning; even if you aren’t. If you’re one of the people who are self-conscience about the smile you have, I relate. I was born without a muscle on the lower left part of my mouth (yes I’m serious) and was very self-conscience about fulling smiling till only a few years ago. It’s mostly because I decided nobody really notices and lots of ppl have crooked smiles and it’s considered attractive by many too so ha. But I also decided I didn’t care because I know I can’t change it (wouldn’t even if I could at this point) and it’s just the hand I was dealt. You’re beautiful; God does not make trash.

Sorry this post was late, happy Friday! 😀